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Going almost two years without posting here was never a deliberate choice, but more a result of having nothing momentous to report, a trade-off I will take for the absence (mostly) of Bad Stuff. My immediate household is all vaxxed and boosted and has avoided getting COVID, though I did pick up a wicked cold from spending Christmas at my parents' house, visiting with several family members I hadn't seen since before the pandemic. I still have my job. The kid has been in person for school since August and doing much better scholastically as a result. (Last school year was a nightmare grades-wise and emotionally.) The husband is still unemployed, though he's been doing better about helping around the house. The dog is my faithful companion; I am grateful to her for providing the impetus to get out of the house at least once a day to walk her.

Family, excuses, etc. )

Right now I'm in a contented state of the weather having finally snowed a proper amount, such that the ground is all covered and no mud/grass/grossness is showing through, and the forecast is cold enough that it should stick around a while. It makes my Northern European/Scandinavian, hygge-loving heritage so satisfied. The kid has also been on snow day vacation for the past three days, though he had to get up even earlier this morning to go with the school bands to a jazz band festival. At least I didn't have to drive him, just drop him off that the school and pick him up in a few minutes.

In short, Hi! I've missed talking to you all.

This is getting long, so I will make another post about participating in Festivids for the first time in AGES.
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I was deeply disappointed by the lack of snow and cold weather over this past winter. (I like freezing temps killing things that are supposed to be killed, like bugs and weeds.) I know I'm a goof for loving snow, so now I have to laugh at myself.

Every year, I let the leaves mulch up over the flower beds to keep them safe and snug over the winter. Then, come springtime, I dither about how long to wait to clean out the beds, wondering if we're past the cold zone, which inevitably results in the foliage overgrowing past easy removal of the leaves. We're hosting the family Easter gathering in a week, and I wanted the front yard to look nice, so I hired a lawn service guy to blow out and rake up all the lawn detritus and take it away. That was Thursday.

Today we woke up to snow and wind and snow and snow. We've got at least 4-5 inches outside. Timing! At least yesterday when I was out and abouting, I resisted the urge to buy some flowers for planting outside, because March cannot be trusted, and thus was my caution rewarded.

I am also very glad I did the grocery shopping then, so I can stay inside and enjoy the view from comfort and warmth while puttering in the kitchen. I put away a bunch of clean dishes, cooked myself some hash and eggs, baked up some peanut butter cookies, and then threw together a batch of palak paneer. I'm poised on the brink of the end of Farscape season 2, not wanting to dive into the heartbreak of the last episode, so I'm watching all the bonus features first. I've got a minute of vid on the timeline, and at least for right now, the world is calm and cozy. I'm thinking hot chocolate and peanut butter cookies sound really good right now. Hygge to all, and to all a good night!
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In an exemplar display of central Midwestern weather, for the first time since last winter, we have finally had snow on the ground for more than a day. In March. With many of the spring bulbs having sent up their green spikes and some having bloomed already, the more fools them. *sigh* I mean, I love snow, but in its proper time and place. Which is not now.

So I did that thing again where I fell down in posting and failed to get back up. Since my last missive about the ongoing crud invasion assaulting my body, I relapsed on the "sleeping through the night" thing and had to call my primary doc for another prescription. I wound up with a new inhaler that has the bonus side affect of potentially contracting thrush; I am rinsing after every dose to avoid that, blech. But I have officially been sleeping through the night for a couple of weeks now, and oh my goodness! I have energy! I have brain space! I have a personality that isn't "slug on a couch"! Now my tiredness is due to making bad decisions about my bed time. Oh, self.

I also had a CT scan to follow up on an interesting X-ray, and according to the online update to my medical record, the following is the state of my lungs: "main pulmonary artery is mildly enlarged measuring about 3.8 cm", I have "a punctate calcified granuloma in the right upper lobe", and there is "mild linear scarring or subsegmental atelectasis in the right lower lobe". Dr. Google says that's nothing to be alarmed about, so I'm hoping that my visit to the pulmonologist this week concurs. I sure wish my primary had cared enough to call me about the results.

In other news, I'm on week three of my latest period. I suspect and do not recommend perio-menopause; these month-long periods are not particularly fun.
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Well, that's a lie, because I am beyond cranky with cancer and the healthcare system.

My heartfelt thanks go to everyone who left comments and good wishes yesterday. Surgery went well, cancer still sucks. ) The short term goal is for him to get home for Thanksgiving. The long term? To quote "Hamilton", "Stay alive."

On my to-do list yesterday was making phone calls for various medical visits that I've been putting off, because a) I hate phone calls, b) I hate making and remembering appointments, and c) I hate dealing with insurance. My insurance plan switched last year, so every one of my previous providers has to be vetted before I can see them again. ARGH ARGH ARGH. The BCBS provider search web site is absolute crap, as is their coverage. My gyno is in-network, but not my CPAP person or my son's pediatric doc. This all was determined after two phone calls to BCBS customer service taking almost an hour. (Pro-tip: if a doc retired in September, take him out of your search database and website!)

I understand that I'm lucky to have health insurance, and that my company switched coverage so the costs wouldn't go up astronomically, but damn, this process is a pain.

It is snowing quite heavily this morning, which would normally be delightful to watch as I snuggle with the Emperor on the couch under a blanket. But we are leaving to visit a friend in another state today, so the frozen precipitation is not appreciated. At least it's beginning to look a lot like Christmas.
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Here in Central Illinois we are being battered by a blizzard. It's been snowing since last night and is due to continue for another 12 hours, with 25 mph winds and a steadily dropping temperature. It's estimated to hit -17 degrees with a -42 degree wind chill tomorrow morning.

I did the grocery shopping yesterday at my husband's urging and got to witness the marvel that is emergency paranoia; entire shelves of supplies were depleted, like bread and vegetables (aside from a sad stripe of radishes - I love you, radishes, even if no one else does!). For once, I actually got everything that was on my list.

The Emperor is ensconced on the couch, watching Minecraft videos on YouTube. He's been pestering us for a month now to buy him the full version, but I've been leery. I tried to explain to him that people online can be cruel and unforgiving to n00bs, that I worry about the language being used, and most importantly, that his computer won't handle the load. Anyone else have Minecraft experience that can give me tips?

I've been home with the Emperor for two weeks now; I took off days around Christmas and New Year's and finished it off by working from home. Alas that my free time got eaten by Christmas shopping and decorating and wrapping and cooking and cleaning, so I have not been keeping up with everyone's posts. I've bookmarked a couple of Yuletide recs lists to peruse, but I think I might have to give up on a full wayback dive. Sorry if I miss something amazing you shared!

My Festivids entry is kicking my ass. I procrastinated so long that it's now a ticking time bomb in the back of my head. I've got about a minute down, and hope to bang out the rest today just to have anything done as a first draft.

I hope everyone else that is being snowblasted can stay inside cozy and warm. May the power stay on and the hot beverages flow!
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I love snow, absolutely adore it to pieces. My favorite thing about snow is getting to sit inside under a warm fuzzy blanket and watch it come down like it forgot how to stop. My roomies in college used to call me the Scandinavian princess, because of the way I came alive in the cold and snow of Michigan winters.

Tonight, I think we've gotten about 4-5 inches in the past 5 hours, and it still keeps coming down. I am seriously fighting the urge, sitting here in my PJs, to get gussied up and go outside to roll in it at 1 AM.

SNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!
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Oh, Penn Station - bless you and your devilishly tasty sandwiches and hargle-worthy fries. I am still *urp*ily full from dinner five hours ago.

In other news, it is the considered opinion of me and a lot of other qualified people that January absolutely SUCKED. It certainly ate my brain in a lot of ways.

RIP, Scott Swanson )It was quite the sobering slap that I need to give a damn about keeping in touch with the people who mean so much to me.

Another topic currently feeding my self-absorption is babies, and the conceiving of another one. The Emperor is going to be in kindergarten in the fall, meaning the cost of his daycare won't be eating a large portion of my paycheck. So even though the husband is still unemployed, the timing is not going to get any righter for kid #2, and my ovaries are certainly not getting any younger. After a rousing effort this past cycle, though, I can feel in my lady parts PMS starting the thundering salvos of another menstrual cycle. I had really thought we'd caught, dammit. *sigh* Another chance to get my (metaphorical and literal) house in order, I suppose.

LL Cool E: Legos Loved by Cool Emperor )

Work is in bad sitcom mode. We are crazy busy prepping for "a new business opportunity", for which we have yet to sign a contract. We're going like gangbusters, working under a veil of secrecy (about half the company has not been informed of the details) for a freaking letter of intent. We've been down this road before and got royally screwed. At least I'm keeping busy.

I will be honest - I totally cried at the end of Dollhouse. I knew the show would have a short life, but...Joss spoilered my spoilerest spoiler! At least I still have Chuck, and Castle, and White Collar, and Big Bang Theory, and...Somehow, I can sense [livejournal.com profile] miniglik snickering at me.

February, as a personal favor, can you suck less? A good start would be a cessation of precipitation. I mean, really - we don't need more snow. We certainly don't need more rain. I personally am craving actual sunlight like...a suicidal emo vampire? A field of Midwestern corn? Whatever. You get the picture. ENOUGH WITH THE DOOM AND GLOOM, DAMMIT.

How's that snowpocalypse treating you all?
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Hey! Hey! Hey, flist, how are you?

You know what I love about December? The likelihood of snow goes way up. I do love snow. Or maybe not. )

You know what I hate about December? Everything else. Except my Space Battle tree. )

So really, with all this dancing in my brain, plus my current project at work entering the testing phase and due to be ready the first week of January, my plate is pretty full, right?

Why, then, did I sign up for THREE fic challenges, all due in the next three weeks? What the hell possessed me to think that was a smart idea? AAAAAAAAAAGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHH!!!!

At least I have sketchy mental outlines for all of them, and the first ones started. But I'm seriously lacking in betas. Any volunteers for:blipped in case one of the mods or my targets are perusing here )
Please?

Oh, and in closing: Flying Spaghetti Monster Holiday greetings to you all!
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