...yeah, this does sound like ablation territory. Yikes.

I'm so sorry (if not at all surprised) that the party is turning out to be a big drain on your time, energy, and patience. Oy.

Are you up for planning some VVC hang-out time? My schedule is pretty open at this point, so if you wanna hang out and have a quiet lunch in my room (possibly with veggies from my garden, depending on how soon the tomatoes ripen), pick a day and let's make it happen. ♥